Post by Admin on May 24, 2021 14:53:37 GMT
Respect
Ask permission before borrowing other's belongings, do not hurt anybody (hitting, pushing, kicking etc.) Do not purposely threaten anyone, you know what's a joke and what's not, don't take it too far.
Closed Doors
Privacy still stays here, knocking on closed doors before entering is respectful, please make sure you always knock first.
Pick up after yourself
If you are told to clean dishes, please do dishes, everyone will be assigned to certain days, to have another member do your chore, there will be a shop information to buy a ticket for a certain amount, the member will than roll the bowl of names, and will choose who gets to do them today. You can only buy once a day, you can ask kindly, and before everyone starts buying tickets because they don't want to do chores, I will personally choose myself if that happens.
Curfew
Everyone has a time to go to bed, depending on job hours, electronics don't haft to be turned off, but be aware that it can screw up your things such as over heating?
Making Amends
When you hurt someone, sometime an apology may be enough, sometimes we may need to restitution as a consequence, if someone insults another, their restitution includes saying two nice things to that person and getting some time to play with that person, of course this is after the heated argument stops.
Tell the truth
There is a difference of white lies and other lies, please make sure your honest no matter what, we try to keep this group the best and happiest place we can
Attend Family Meetings
we will hold regularly scheduled family meetings to help review our rules, talk about schedules and make changes if necessary.
Safety
Do not threaten or use weapons against any of our members, do not answer the door for anybody if your alpha does not allow you, if a threat is at the door just in-case bring 2 other's over to help you.
Furniture
Do not stand, have drinks, food on furniture, we will have fold-able little tables to help us eat in the living room, so please keep our furniture as clean as possible. No standing or jumping please.
Feelings and Respect
Everyone can share feelings we will have time to share how we feel during meetings, everyone still needs to show respect. Use kind words.
Healthy habits
clean up after yourself, shower, brush teeth, hair etc. and dirty clothes in the hamper, everyone must work together!
Ask permission before borrowing other's belongings, do not hurt anybody (hitting, pushing, kicking etc.) Do not purposely threaten anyone, you know what's a joke and what's not, don't take it too far.
Closed Doors
Privacy still stays here, knocking on closed doors before entering is respectful, please make sure you always knock first.
Pick up after yourself
If you are told to clean dishes, please do dishes, everyone will be assigned to certain days, to have another member do your chore, there will be a shop information to buy a ticket for a certain amount, the member will than roll the bowl of names, and will choose who gets to do them today. You can only buy once a day, you can ask kindly, and before everyone starts buying tickets because they don't want to do chores, I will personally choose myself if that happens.
Curfew
Everyone has a time to go to bed, depending on job hours, electronics don't haft to be turned off, but be aware that it can screw up your things such as over heating?
Making Amends
When you hurt someone, sometime an apology may be enough, sometimes we may need to restitution as a consequence, if someone insults another, their restitution includes saying two nice things to that person and getting some time to play with that person, of course this is after the heated argument stops.
Tell the truth
There is a difference of white lies and other lies, please make sure your honest no matter what, we try to keep this group the best and happiest place we can
Attend Family Meetings
we will hold regularly scheduled family meetings to help review our rules, talk about schedules and make changes if necessary.
Safety
Do not threaten or use weapons against any of our members, do not answer the door for anybody if your alpha does not allow you, if a threat is at the door just in-case bring 2 other's over to help you.
Furniture
Do not stand, have drinks, food on furniture, we will have fold-able little tables to help us eat in the living room, so please keep our furniture as clean as possible. No standing or jumping please.
Feelings and Respect
Everyone can share feelings we will have time to share how we feel during meetings, everyone still needs to show respect. Use kind words.
Healthy habits
clean up after yourself, shower, brush teeth, hair etc. and dirty clothes in the hamper, everyone must work together!
- Alpha's are in charge, period
- We are family first and foremost
- Rules are rules they are not general guidelines
- We respect everyone who lives here, Always
- You are not expected to be perfect, therefore, you may not expect perfection from others
- If you don't have nothing nice to say, don't say it.
- You are expected to respond or acknowledge when you are spoken to, ear buds or not
- If you want to add something to the family calendar, you need to give plenty of notice
- If you are caught lying about something, you will receive twice the consequences. Being honest is always your best option
- Man or woman, girl or boy, you are expected to keep your word
- If your plans have changed, you need to the group as soon as they change
- There are plenty of times to have a discussion, you may always speak your mind – as long as you do it in a respectful way, Meetings will also help with sharing your feelings and being open <3
- When someone is speaking, they have the floor
- If you would like privileges, you will need to fulfill your responsibilities
- If you want to borrow something, you will need to ask & not just take it
- When you borrow something, you will need to return it as you found it and to where you found it
- There is no maid who lives here
- When you take something out, put it back
- If you take the last of something, tell the person who needs to know
- If you break something, you will be involved in the fixing or replacing process
- Electronics are a privilege, not a right, do not treat them more important than your family.
- No matter who the pet's owner is, it's to be taken care.
- If your plans have changed, you need to the group as soon as they change